I understand it's not all feminists, just certain ones. I do have a pet peeve about groups trying to force their identity norms on people of their own group.

I see your point, I just wasn't sure if it was like that or not.

Didn't mean to get you mad- it's just something I don't understand much. It's why I probe and prod some- not so much to be annoying (though I succeed in that quite well) but to understand.