And I mean general stupidity and wrongness coming from all sides, including those who are using this as an opportunity to crack cheap sexist jokes at Jameson's expense.

God, yeah. That makes me SO fucking angry. I mean, hey, look! It's a girl! Who's open about sexuality! Let's pull out the ol' virgin/whore rubric--it'll save us from having to think or treat her like a REAL PERSON with REAL IDEAS.