So with your definition, if I look at a Tom of Finland drawing with its impossible anatomy that has the drawing passively invinting me to lust after him/it, that is objectification and inherently sexist, so I am sexist when it comes to men even though, I would never agree that men should be paid less or treated as objects or be subjected to sexual discrimination or sexually harrassed or any of the other behaviors associated with sexism. Does that sound right?