I agree. Actually I have always perceive the adopting the husband family name as pretty sexist. It feels like the woman has to leave behind who she was before marrying, and that the family, not only the wife but also the kids are all belonging to the man.

As matter of fact, the tradition of each partner keeping their own family names and giving their kids both we have here, is one of the few things we are different to half of the world and I'm proud we are.

Though in the case the mother wants the kid to keep her name in first place and the father's in second. I wonder when it happens, how many men consent to it.

In the end, bad things always find their way.